Invitation Wording
Adults-Only Wedding Invitation Wording
For adults only wedding invitation wording, lead with the invitation itself, then add only the detail needed to politely tell guests that the celebration is adults only. Keep policy or etiquette wording warm but unambiguous.
If you're trying to politely tell guests that the celebration is adults only, the invitation needs to sound like you while still leaving guests with no doubt about what is being asked. Below are six copy-ready adults only wedding invitation wording examples in different tones, followed by practical placement and etiquette tips.
Where to use this wording
Main invitation, invitation insert or digital invitation
Adults-Only Wedding Invitation Wording examples
Formal
We adore your little ones, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you can enjoy a night off with us.
Modern
Please note that our ceremony and reception are for adults only.
Warm
We have reserved this celebration for our adult friends and family and kindly ask that children stay at home.
Short
Due to the style of our celebration, we are only able to accommodate guests aged 18 and over.
Friendly
Adults only, please. We hope this gives you the perfect excuse for a child-free evening.
Alternative
Kindly note that this invitation is extended to adults only. Thank you for understanding.
Frequently asked questions
What should adults-only wedding invitation wording include?
Use the wording to politely tell guests that the celebration is adults only. Keep the invitation, names, date, time and venue easy to identify, then add the adults-only wedding invitation detail without burying the core invitation.
What is the clearest polite way to say a wedding is adults only?
Use a warm but direct line such as “We are delighted to celebrate with our adult guests.” Address invitations to the invited adults and avoid wording that sounds optional if children genuinely cannot attend.
Should adults-only wedding invitation wording go on the main invitation or on an insert?
For adults-only wedding invitation wording, put anything that changes who is invited or what they are invited to on the main invitation. Use main invitation, invitation insert or digital invitation for longer explanation, travel information or secondary etiquette notes so the core invitation stays easy to read.